treewide: fix a bunch of lints

Fixes:
- Identifiers starting with _ are prohibited
- Some driveby header dependency cleaning which wound up with doing some
  extra fixups.
- Fucking C style casts, man. C++ made these 1000% worse by letting you
  also do memory corruption with them with references.
  - Remove casts to Expr * where ExprBlackHole is an incomplete type by
    introducing an explicitly-cast eBlackHoleAddr as Expr *.
  - An incredibly illegal cast of the text bytes of the StorePath hash
    into a size_t directly. You can't DO THAT.

    Replaced with actually parsing the hash so we get 100% of the bits
    being entropy, then memcpying the start of the hash. If this shows
    up in a profile we should just make the hash parser faster with a
    lookup table or something sensible like that.
  - This horrendous bit of UB which I thankfully slapped a deprecation
    warning on, built, and it didn't trigger anywhere so it was dead
    code and I just deleted it. But holy crap you *cannot* do that.

    inline void mkString(const Symbol & s)
    {
        mkString(((const std::string &) s).c_str());
    }
- Some wrong lints. Lots of wrong macro lints, one wrong
  suspicious-sizeof lint triggered by the template being instantiated
  with only pointers, but the calculation being correct for both
  pointers and not-pointers.
- Exceptions in destructors strike again. I tried to catch the
  exceptions that might actually happen rather than all the exceptions
  imaginable. We can let the runtime hard-kill it on other exceptions
  imo.

Change-Id: I71761620846cba64d66ee7ca231b20c061e69710

src/libutil/error.hh

@@ -16,16 +16,12 @@
  */
 
 #include "suggestions.hh"
-#include "ref.hh"
-#include "types.hh"
 #include "fmt.hh"
 
 #include <cstring>
 #include <list>
 #include <memory>
-#include <map>
 #include <optional>
-#include <compare>
 
 #include <sys/types.h>
 #include <sys/stat.h>
@@ -173,6 +169,7 @@ public:
 };
 
 #define MakeError(newClass, superClass) \
+    /* NOLINTNEXTLINE(bugprone-macro-parentheses) */    \
     class newClass : public superClass                  \
     {                                                   \
     public:                                             \