This was an absolute nightmare to diagnose. It turns out there's a
kernel bug: poll with events = POLLHUP will receive an event for NOT
POLLHUP internally in the kernel, delete their event subscription, and
then not receive events for any HUP later. lol! lmao!!
We choose to use plain old EVFILT_READ because the watched fd can be
either a socket or a pipe and it's preferable to eat some spurious
wakeups than have separate paths for those. The alternative is using
EVFILT_SOCK, a private API that's existed for years and which netty
uses for its sockets, but that doesn't work on pipes.
Fixes: https://git.lix.systems/lix-project/lix/issues/729
Change-Id: If72b5d7a39f00320a9acccdbe81121cdb1a04c45